First off, welcome, and thanks for reading! I hope you’ll find my personal insights and synthesis from over 25 years of experience as a couples therapist (and partner!) helpful and valuable for your relationship.
Here in 60+ articles is most of what I believe I can say without being too redundant—and without having you in my office! I also got so busy in my practice that I had to cut back on my writing, though I am hoping to continue adding a few pieces a year. All the posts before 2023 were imported from Medium.com, and though they stretch back a few years they still reflect my best thinking on the topics.
However, as imports, I am having to update all links to my other articles that were originally medium.com links, and this takes a tremendous amount of time so as you get deeper into the archive some of the links may not work. You may be able to search for the titles to find them, or look for working links in more recent articles.
Also imported were many comments that I made to others’ posts on medium.com. I am leaving some that may be useful on their own even without the original context. I am deleting most of those one-by-one, but since Substack does not have any method for bulk deletion, each one takes more than five steps to delete—so again, long process! As you scroll through the list of posts you can spot most articles as accompanied by photos, whereas comments are designated by the “bookmark” icon.
Anyway, I appreciate your patience and interest, and wish you the best in all your relationships!
Dr. Robert